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A Point on the Horizon Past COVID 19

The rainbow signaled the end of bad times in biblical times. May this one signal the coming of better days once again.

Two doses and time are needed.

We need to be careful and deliberate.  There seems to be a growing sense now there is a vaccine, and we are protected when we get it.  Israel has had issues with people getting infected after the first dose.  It looks like the first vaccine only gives about 50% of the protection needed.  So please don’t go out thinking yourself protected after the first dose.  That is how Israel had a large increase in COVID cases after they started rolling out the vaccines.  From my friend in Israel, they are having problems with people getting the vaccine and thinking they are good to go.  What isn’t in that article is the protection from the second shot is not instant either.  It still seems to take about 2 to 3 weeks after the second shot for full protection to kick in.  That in combination with people thinking they are protected after 1 shot has lead to their recent surge in cases.

In the face of this, we have things like Gov. Hogan demanding MD schools reopen by March 1 or else…However, there isn’t enough of the vaccine to vaccinate the teachers at the moment (even a first dose).  They are being told to try calling again starting Feb 1.  Well, if all of them got their first dose Feb1 and their second dose at the earliest time on Feb 14, they would not get the full protection in time to open March 1.  What do you think are the odds we will get the best case roll out with no days of delay?  This ignores kids as spreaders of the virus to their homes as we learn more about the more contagious variants currently spreading through the U.S. We already lack enough teachers in our schools, especially for special needs children.

We need to be careful.  The end is now in sight, but it is a spec on the horizon, a still distant destination.  At least we now have a direction to progress towards, but we have a long way to to get to heard immunity of 80%.  We need the steady increase of production and distribution of the vaccine.  As the Washington Post editorial today pointed out, Biden’s stated goal of 100 million doses administered in the first 100 days is only 1 million a day.  To reach heard immunity levels of 80%, we would not reach our goal until the summer…of 2022.  The 100 million in 100 days needs to be the start up of an expanding effort to vaccinate our society.    

However, I fear this is another case of the public not understanding the scope of the problem and the project needed to get us to our destination of herd immunity. We hear 100 million and think this is great because it represents a pace faster than we are currently moving. However, this is another case of us not internalizing large numbers.

When I wrote before about our understanding of large numbers, I said the best way I have seen to get us to understand large numbers is either in relationship to another number we kind of understand or as a percent change. So let us look at this aspirational goal in terms of a percent completion towards the goal of herd immunity.

For herd immunity, we need 80 percent of the population to get the shots. We have 330 million people in the U.S. So we need 264 million people to get a total of 528 million doses. If you get rid of that pesky “million” in the doses needed and doses given, suddenly we are left with the daunting thought of progressing 0.18% of the way towards our goal every day. To put it in an easier to digest way, we need 528 days to reach our goal.

I cringe thinking of another year and a half of this covid isolation. Granted, some people have already gotten the vaccine or had COVID 19. So we are not starting our count towards 264 at 0, but we are only a couple steps down the road to where we need to be. We also do not need to make it all the way to 264 before we start reopening. That is simply a safety target. However, we need to make the 100 million in 100 days merely the first step of our run, a step towards getting up to speed. We have a long way to go, and need to be clear our goal is more ambitious than 100 million in 100 days.

So if you have a chance to get us another step towards 264, please take it both for your own health and everyone else’s. Like wearing a mask, it is not just about you. It’s a step towards a healthier society trying to push through COVID19.

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New Normals with Covid 19

Love is making Smores around a fire pit.

When Our New Normals Disappoint

COVID19 has certainly made us redefine our life styles.  More and more, I become convinced nothing is going to change any time soon.  I am convinced it will take a long time to develop a vaccine, prove it safe and effective, manufacture enough for all, and finally distribute it.  So how do we make it OK?  How do we make the months, important months with our kids, meaningful and instructive. 

It is a little awkward for me as I think about how MS always leaves me wondering if I will be able to do tomorrow what I did today.  For our older kids, they think about all they have lost and are losing.  For a kid, their world exists within all of their social contacts.  The world is what they experience and with whom they experience it.  COVID 19 has drastically shrunk their world as social means with their brothers and sisters. So how do we make it OK? How do we expand their horizons andnot waste their time to grow?  Did I mention the challenge of doing this without going crazy or dropping from exhaustion and stress?  They want new experiences and are tired of the same things day after day.  Then they get annoyed at new announcements of things they can no longer do.  I get it.  

My boys and I dress up for a fancy dinner at home.

For years, I lamented the things I could not do anymore with my MS.  I could not play soccer, and for a while I couldn’t run. I could not even hold a bowl of oatmeal in the cafeteria without dropping it.  I could not swallow without things getting stuck in my throat…The list goes ever on and on.  I said to myself I did not ever want my family to understand. I thought the way they would best understand is to go through it, and why would I wish that on family.  Now it seems we all get to live through some of the same uncertainty and loss of control over our losses.  It sucks.

However, there is a lot to be gained too.  I just don’t know how to make my kids understand it.  More and more it becomes necessary to look around at what we still have and enjoy it.  Then find new ways to enjoy those things we have always enjoyed.  For example, I have always enjoyed going for walks, and now we as a family go for walks every day.  Now walks that were about escape into the solitude of my mind have become family bonding and exercise for all of us, including the dogs. 

We have a beautiful yard with a swing set and trampoline.  I love watching all four kids on the trampoline together playing silly games.  We have always done dinner as a family, but now we have it on the screened in porch every night.  Frequently, we have desserts J makes with the kids.  We have even played around with a fancy dinner night where we all dressed up.

Family walks provide bonding time when we are all together. However, things are rarely this harmonic which is why I snapped the picture.

As we continue through this time of uncertainty with schools opening remotely again, and uncertainty around how and when we will be able to visit with family and friends again, it seems the only way to find any peace is taking the time and put in the effort to enjoy our new normal.  It is not how we imagine we want it to be.  However, we are lucky we still have our home and our loved ones. We still have a lot. 

It just takes stepping back, taking a breath, and looking at our situation. That is looking at our situation as it is, not as it was, or could have been. There is a lot of good…even if if it is not what we thought we needed to be happy.

It is time to stop griping and start living our new normal.

 

l.    

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