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2020 A Year of COVID 19 and Social Distance

As bad as 2020 has been for us as a population, I wanted a way to remember how we as a family fared. I figure a decade from now when all of this is either the beginning of situation normal or a distant memory, I will want to be able to look back at 2020.

So here are a few of the photos of this past year to show what it was like for our family.

Our year started off great. We even had our nu.
The year quickly seemed headed for nowhere on March when we began social isolation and distance learning.
O’s computer sitting on his great-grandmother’s desk.
Distance learning was a new, serious challenge for our family of 4 special needs children.
Our family walked daily.
We found lots of interesting things on our walks, like this abandoned car from the 1950’s.
It was a pleasant surprise to find so many wooded walks near us. So we walked….
And just kept walking as we discovered more interesting hikes near us.
Wildlife ran rampant in the neighborhood.
All of the walking and sharing in,my wife’s exercise routines lead to my 4,5,6 challenge. My hope is to add a year pf productivity by being healthier in exchange for the year lost to COVID 19.
After a few months of social distancing, we did a formal dinner where we all dressed up.
We had fun playing blind twister with textured circles and blindfold to level the playing field for K.
Fireworks were visible from the comfort of our neighborhood again. They were a tradition that survived the virus unscathed.
We still dressed for Halloween and our yearly photo at our neighbor’s house.
When we could not do some of out normal traditions, J stepped in to keep things fun with Halloween themed foods like Mummy Dogs.
As Christmas rolled around, we headed out to look at the lights. This house has been invited to participate in Christmas Lights War next year.
There is nothing like a singing pooping flamingo to get belly laughs from the family.
What’s Christmas without a constantly squeaking pogo stick?
The rainbow signaled the end of bad times in biblical times. May this one signal the coming of better days once again as we head into 2021.
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Stress and My MS

 

Our tree 2014
Christmas is coming.

Many of us stress about the holiday season. Some of us worry what that stress may do to us. With MS, it is thought stress can precipitate a flare, though all the evidence I have seen for this is anecdotal. It’s simply not ethical to cause stress on a group of people to see if they suffer an exacerbation which may have long term negative health consequences. So as I go through a fairly stressful time period, I started wondering what research is available outside of MS on the impacts of stress, and I came across two theories.

The first theory is based around the idea stressful events have major health impacts. In 1968, two psychiatrists came up with a stress inventory called the Holmes-Rahe Stress Inventory after asking more than 5,000 subjects to track their major life events. They then looked at how the events correlated with major health incidents over the following two years. Using this data, they scored each event and created the Holmes-Rahe Stress Inventory of the top 43. The cumulative score from the events present over the course of a year was used to categorize the risk of future subjects by putting them into one of three categories. http://www.stress.org/holmes-rahe-stress-inventory/

0-150 had little correlation with increased risk.

150-299 indicated a fifty percent chance for a major health incident in the following two years.

300+ represented an eighty percent chance for a major health incident in the following two years.

As I read through the index, my score was between 215 and 272 depending on how strictly I interpreted the categories. So in my effort to minimize my concern, I started looking for reasons this test does not apply to me. I started with the date the list was created, more than 45 years ago. I thought I was in the clear until I found articles indicating it had been studied more recently with updated versions for the changing times. The only new item was death of a pet…which I recently had. This means I score even worse with the update… The biggest draw back on the following study done in 1970 to validate the original findings was the sample was only men, but this does nothing to invalidate its findings for me.

This got me thinking about just what being in the second category meant. It meant I had an increased risk, but how strong is the correlation between the risk category and the health events. It turns out the correlation is only 0.18. So while there is a statistically significant increase in likelihood of health events, it is not quite as dire as the fifty percent in the category would make one believe.
The first approach deals with the impact of stressful events, and I do not score very well on it, but given the low correlation studies have found between events and health, maybe the better prediction can be made looking at day to day living.

It seems there is a general consensus the daily look at stressors is a more accurate way to look at stress and its impact on our body. The best study I have seen described is from Ohio University in 1992, so again dated material is an issue. Still for the sake of understanding, the write-up at http://www.ohioupsychology.com/files/images/holroyd_lab/Holm%20&%20Holroyd%20The%20Daily%20Hassles%20Scale%20Revised%201992.pdf
is excellent. On pages 8 and 9, it lists seven major categories of daily hassles and components within the categories. The major categories are Inner concerns, Financial concerns, Time pressures, Work Hassles, Environmental hassles , Family hassles, and Health hassles. This report looks also looks at the hassles as possibly being just two categories, inner and external, before coming back to the seven mentioned above with all their elements.

As I look at the measures listed for this approach it quickly became apparent, I would do no better on the daily hassles than the stressful events, and I decided I was better served to look at what I can see stress is actually doing to me. After all, I really do not need various scientific studies to tell me I belong in the “stressed” category. I knew this going into the reading. So I am back to noting far more MS symptoms which is right in line with the original theory about stress causing MS flares. However, I do not have the symptoms constantly. As a result, they do not rise to the level of a flare I need to report. Instead, I just note more times when my vision blurs to the snow channel with quick head movements up and down and more incidents of pain and spasticity.

I guess I should just be thankful and employ all the stress relief techniques I know while praying the rest of my family and friends will do likewise.  For now, I will just go back to my inner Karaoke song of choice, good for any season:

 

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