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Santa Surrounded by Miracles

 I had thought I would write this week about how hard it is to spend weeks where everyday is spent in a muddle of discomfort.  I still find it easy to meet people, but it’s difficult to relate sometimes.  Still, it’s hard to find any such negative emotions in light of the Christmas party we attended on Saturday.  Maybe that’s the best Christmas present I get this year.  I’d be hard pressed to think of a present my kids could give me worth more than that mornings memories and images.

Our kids all went to sit on Santa’s lap as he came to visit medically fragile kids who have been foster care through Mentor.  Above are O and A with Santa.  Below is K who was in complete sensory overload with all of the kids and sounds.

So many of our creations seem to reflect us.  O and I made this ornament.  He named it O and the story is he wants to be a real boy.  Funny, sometimes I want to be a real boy too.

A had a ball pushing K around “seeing” other kids, some of whom she knew from their spending time with us.  I suspect it’s one of the times they felt most “like” the rest of the crowd.

I loved seeing this little girl whom we’ve know for years getting her face painted.  She was so proud of her Santa face paint “costume.”  For a little girl thought to be on death’s door multiple times, seeing her happy, proud and having fun was priceless.
Even with my A and K staying out of the picture dealing with sensory overload reactions, I think this is my favorite picture from the event.  It’s a picture where everyone in it has an amazing story.  It’s a picture of Santa surrounded by miracles as everyone with Santa has come through medically fragile foster care.  It’s a visual of Christmas spirit as I imagine it.

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Christmas Spirit

It’s around this time of year when I start to take stock of how things are going with my life.  It’s a time to be thankful and loving.  Perhaps it is odd, but this Christmas, I think back to my lunches a couple of years ago with Michael.
It’s rather amazing.  Years after meeting him, I think of him again this Christmas.  At first, I would wish for him to find that for which he is holding on, but after thinking about it, it seems he had found it.  In fact maybe his mentality is closer to the Christmas spirit:
“…hold on because God is good and God says the word is good, and the word says the world is good so everything is going to get better because…”
Maybe the true Christmas spirit is one of recognizing all the good in our lives and holding it close.  When I asked my son last night what he thought Christmas was all about, he said, “Christmas is about loving our family.”  Amen.
I sometimes find it funny how many people say seeing all the Christmas lights out gives them more Christmas enthusiasm or spirit.  As I walk around my neighborhood, almost half of them are decorated for Christmas including one house whose light display is one people make special trips just to drive by it and gawk.  It’s impressive, and one might think they are trying to get on one of those extreme Christmas light shows.  Despite its and other houses’ bright attention grabbing light shows, the house I think best sums up Christmas spirit to me is the house down the street with the single electric candle in each window.
Their candles are lit year round.  The funny part to me is the parents didn’t know what it signifies, though the daughter who owns the house did and does.  The single white candle in every window used to mean there is a warm open bed here, and nobody need freeze outside.  It was a welcome on those cold frozen nights.  The meaning of the signal is lost on most everyone these days, but the simplicity and worthiness of the message is my favorite Christmas symbol. 
My kids love our Christmas lights and want more, so I don’t see a change in the near future for us. I do sometimes wish we could just put the light in every window.  It would be even better if we could agree to honor the message. That said and looking around my house, maybe our house is on the right track towards honoring the message.

Merry Christmas!

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